Sex Toys, Vibrators, Dildos

Toy Talk: Sex Toys and Your Relationship

In the past, people were often embarrassed by their sex toys -- keeping them well-hidden under the bed or high on a closet shelf.  These days -- whether your sex life is vanilla or multi-flavored, couple directed or single user -- you probably already own one or more sex toys.  People discuss sex toys publicly, make comparisons in friendly chat, and sometimes even display them as pieces of art and craft.  A lovely glass dildo, for example, may be as proudly on 'show' as a fine vase or a piece of sculpture.  Freely communicating about such intimate details can be a genuine boost to understanding and enjoying the who and what you and your sex partners enjoy and are skilled at using.

More and more people are coming to the understanding that sex toys can be effective and pleasurable accessories to their sex life, just as hot and trendy clothes, bling, and hi tech audio equipment are to their social lives.  It's important, however, to maintain perspective and not become obsessive.  Sex toys are accessories.  They're the frosting, not the actual cake.  While it's possible to become emotionally attached to your sex toys, it's far more rewarding and sexually healthy to simply use them as tools or sensual enhancements.  Most people agree that shared physical intimacy between partners is still the best sex despite any promises of...

Delicious Desires: Top Products for Oral Sex
All that talk of kissing in my last blog got me thinking about flavored products. The right lip gloss not only makes your lips soft, smooth and succulent, but it can add a pleasant flavor to a kiss. Likewise, Nipple Nibblers lotion not only adds a sweet, pleasant-tasting tingle to your ...

Kissing Tips for Your New Year’s Celebration
As holidays go, New Year’s Eve can be more romantic than Valentine’s Day. Sure, it’s just a night of partying, noise-makers and funny hats, with hordes of people gathering ‘round to watch a giant lighted ball fall from the sky, but all that build-up to midnight culminates (if you’re lucky) ...

New Site Gives “Wanderlust” New Meaning
In a recent post, your resourceful romancer, Desiree Sweet, talked about public places that are relatively safe to sneak a quickie. A unique new Web site, outdoorlovemap.com, puts some organized effort into the concept.  Deemed “the International Guide to Places to Make Love Outdoors,” the Wiki-style site (which means the site ...